Three example online dating first emails are examined and suggestions are given on how to improve these first emails to get better responses. In first email online dating examples article I also give some examples of how I would write some first emails based on several random dating profiles.
In this article, I will review some more first dating emails based on advice I gave to a reader. He provided me with three emails he wrote and I reworked them to be closer to what I would have written. Some of us have more experience or better insight than others but at the end of the day we’re all just making our best guesses. I just believe based on my own experience they can be improved upon because sometimes we make our first emails out to be more than they should be. Because I want to avoid revealing any reader’s identity, I’m changing the specifics of his emails. I’m not going to change the general tone or point of the emails but I am trying to ensure he remains anonymous by changing some of the specifics.
I love it out here but I do miss home a lot. Where are you originally from? I really liked what I read about you and your interests. I am absolutely in love with Seattle. I love exploring and getting lost and it seems like you are pretty similar in that regard. I love going to the Space Needle, the museums, and Pike Market just to name a few activities.
I look for in other people. I’d love to chat and hear more about you. I really liked your profile! I realize this might look like not enough but for me keeping it short like this worked well in first emails. I’d start asking some of those questions.
I would also hesitate asking a woman where she’s originally from in a first email. I get why he asks but some people are more sensitive about risks with online dating than others so I’d save it for a later email. Hi there, how are you? How do you enjoy teaching in the city? I recently moved to Seattle for work from Texas and I really love it here so far. You seem like the kind of energetic, open person I might get along with.